preparing kids for a sunset photoshoot: a fun and relaxed approach
As a lifestyle photographer, one of the most rewarding parts of my job is capturing the beautiful, unposed moments that happen naturally, especially with children. While some photographers might focus on getting kids to smile and pose for the camera, I love to take a more relaxed approach — capturing their true essence as they play, interact, and just enjoy the moment. And when it comes to a sunset photoshoot, the golden light and relaxed atmosphere are perfect for this laid-back approach. So how can we prepare kids (and their parents) for this kind of shoot? Here are a few tips to ensure it’s a fun and memorable experience for everyone.
1. Keep It Fun and Unpressured
The key to a successful sunset photoshoot with kids is to ensure that the experience feels like an enjoyable adventure rather than a “task” to be completed. I always recommend starting by telling the kids about the shoot in an exciting and playful way. Instead of framing it as “We’re going to take pictures today,” I suggest, “We’re going to have a blast at the beach (or field, or park), and you get to run around and play while I capture the fun!” This helps them feel at ease and gives them a sense of freedom.
2. Plan Around the Golden Hour
Sunset photoshoots are best during the golden hour — that magical time when the sun is low in the sky, casting a soft, warm light. The timing of the shoot is crucial for getting that perfect, glowing effect. But here's the thing: kids don’t always have the patience to stay still or focused for long periods, and the golden hour is fleeting! So, plan your shoot around this time while keeping things flexible. Set aside plenty of time for breaks, snacks, and to let the kids roam and explore. The goal is to capture their natural, candid moments without rushing them.
3. Embrace the Movement
As a lifestyle photographer, I’m less focused on getting kids to sit still and smile at the camera. I encourage parents to let go of the expectation that every shot has to be “perfect.” Instead, let the kids run, twirl, play, and interact with each other. Whether they’re chasing each other around, jumping in the air, or exploring the environment, movement makes for authentic and dynamic images. The beauty of lifestyle photography is that it captures real moments, and kids are often at their best when they’re free to express themselves naturally.
4. Dress Comfortably, But Stylishly
Comfort is key for kids, especially when they’re going to be playing and moving around. Avoid outfits that are too stiff or restrictive. Opt for breathable, relaxed clothing that allows them to move freely. Light, casual dresses, soft cotton shirts, and comfortable pants or shorts are great options. A touch of style can be added with accessories like hats or scarves, but the focus should always be on their comfort and ability to move around with ease. If they feel good in what they’re wearing, it’ll show in the photos!
5. Bring Props and Distractions
Sometimes, kids need a little extra to keep their attention. I recommend bringing along some props — a ball, a kite, or even a favorite toy. These items can help keep the kids engaged while allowing me to capture those sweet, natural moments. And don’t forget about the magic of nature! A beach photoshoot can include collecting seashells, or a park shoot might involve chasing butterflies or playing in the grass. When kids are distracted by something they enjoy, the photos tend to feel more relaxed and candid.
6. Prepare for the Weather
If you’re doing a sunset shoot, remember that weather conditions can change rapidly, especially in the late afternoon or evening. It can get cooler as the sun sets, so bring a light sweater or jacket just in case. Be sure to check the weather forecast the day before and communicate any changes with the parents. It’s always better to be over-prepared than to find yourselves unprepared for a sudden chill or unexpected breeze.
7. Set the Right Expectations for Parents
As much as we all want those perfectly composed shots where everyone is smiling at the camera, lifestyle photography is all about capturing the raw, unfiltered moments. I always remind parents that the goal of the shoot is to capture real memories and interactions, not just posed photos. Some of the best images might be the ones where the kids are lost in their own world, laughing, or showing their unique personalities.
8. Be Patient and Flexible
Kids are unpredictable, and that’s part of what makes them so fun to photograph. Be prepared for some hiccups — a little fussing, unexpected tantrums, or needing a snack break. It’s all part of the process! I remind parents to stay relaxed and patient; the best photos often come when everyone is just enjoying the moment. If the kids are feeling tired or grumpy, it’s okay to take a break or call it a day early. The goal is to create positive experiences for both the kids and parents, so they’ll remember the shoot fondly.
Conclusion
A sunset photoshoot with kids should be a fun, relaxed experience that allows everyone to unwind and enjoy the moment. When the pressure is off, and kids are free to play, the resulting photos capture true joy and natural beauty. So, when preparing for your next session, embrace the spontaneity of childhood and let the sunset’s warm glow work its magic. After all, it’s the genuine moments that make for the most memorable photos — and that’s what lifestyle photography is all about.